Learn the honest, non-sleazy way to attract high quality partners.
With the long weekend coming and the 4th of July celebrations, many of us will be going out for drinks with friends. Since most people will be in high spirits, take this as an excellent opportunity to challenge yourself and meet new, quality women.
After years of going out, you begin to notice the subtle mistakes that guys make at the bar. Most of the time all they need is a few simple adjustments that would change their interactions dramatically.
How to pick up girls in clubs and bars – the ultimate guide
Here are 7 easy ways that will improve your chances at the bar. Women are out at the bar to relax, have fun, and enjoy good company. Rather than circling the bar, pick a spot to lean against with a good view of the room.
Give yourself no more than 3 seconds to get up, walk over, and approach her. We do it when nervous as a defense mechanism and women sub-consciously pick up on that. Always keep your drink low and to your side, it demonstrates open body language and an inviting attitude.
How to *actually* meet someone at a bar
After she breaks eye contact, walk over to her and introduce yourself. Guess what?
Constant leaning in is awkward, frustrates her trying to hear you, and kills the vibe. Instead, project your voice further or move to her side. Standing shoulder to shoulder is a great way to hear each other better and get a more intimate feel.
Have you ever hit it off with a girl at the bar only to have her friends drag her away moments later? Introduce yourself to her friends male and female and interact with them — get them laughing and enjoying you being there.
After a couple of minutes, you can face her more direct and have a one-on-one conversation. Which le me to my final point…. Invite her to grab a drink at the bar, take a seat, or move to a place a little more quiet.
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